quic: apply multiple fixes to flow control signaling

[jasnell]

Fixing up the QUIC flow control signaling and closed stream handling, expand tests.

Update the flow control handling after the iter streams byte-budget based flow control updates.

@nodejs/quic @pimterry @martenrichter

[nodejs-github-bot]

Review requested:

• @nodejs/quic

[codecov]

Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 40.00000% with 27 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 90.12%. Comparing base (0c31886) to head (d889ee8).
⚠️ Report is 1 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
src/dataqueue/queue.cc	0.00%	15 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️
lib/internal/blob.js	62.06%	11 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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  Branches    47776    47786      +10     
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- Hits       228662   228640      -22     
- Misses      16256    16322      +66     
+ Partials     8738     8732       -6     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
lib/internal/blob.js	87.43% <62.06%> (-0.72%)	⬇️
src/dataqueue/queue.cc	65.79% <0.00%> (-1.77%)	⬇️

... and 35 files with indirect coverage changes

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[nodejs-github-bot]

CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/75873/

[martenrichter]

Great addition to find more stalls in the pipeline.
Beside the comments, the rest looks good.

[nodejs-github-bot]

CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/75885/ 💛

[jasnell]

@pimterry @Ethan-Arrowood @nodejs/quic ... really need to get this landed before we muck around with more of the quic impl