kafka - 19409: Upgrade RocksDB to 10.5.1

[deepgolani4]

This PR updates:

gradle/dependencies.gradle (rocksDB -> 10.5.1)
LICENSE-binary (rocksdbjni-10.5.1)
Compatibility updates in RocksDBGenericOptionsToDbOptionsColumnFamilyOptionsAdapter:

max_write_buffer_number_to_maintain: removed in RocksDB 10.2.1, now handled as deprecated compatibility shim (warn + no-op return).
skip_checking_sst_file_sizes_on_db_open: deprecated in RocksDB 10.5.1, now explicitly marked deprecated and logged when used.
fail_if_options_file_error: kept for API compatibility, marked deprecated with warning since RocksDB 10.2.1+ changed behavior.

diff:
https: //github.com/facebook/rocksdb/compare/v10.1.3...v10.5.1
Reviewers: Matthias J. Sax matthias@confluent.io

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[gaurav-narula]

I see newer versions have been published since this PR was raised. Perhaps worth considering a bump to latest?

[mjsax]

Closing this PR -- we never got to this, and plan to upgrade to 10.10.1+ which was release in the mean time now.

#22998