Grouping operations on large datasets can overflow i32 offsets

[maxburke]

Describe the bug

The ByteGroupValueBuilder can raise an offset overflow error if the columns (string or binary) have a large number of values.

Also see: apache/datafusion-comet#4718

To Reproduce

apache/datafusion-comet#4718 has a reproduction

Expected behavior

Grouping operations ideally should not overflow and return an error, even on large input data

Additional context

No response